The only thing life is interested in…

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Why you don’t have what you want…

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Think of it this way: the universe loves you so much it won’t give you what you want yet. “Wait, huh?? That doesn’t make sense.I thought the universe loves me and my soul’s deepest wishes are it’s deepest desires for me. Doesn’t the universe WANT me to be happy??” Absolutely. And that’s why it won’t just hand you what you want… yet. Imagine a five year old child that is begging for the keys to the family car so that it can go out for a drive. Now in that moment, the child believes that the keys to that car are going to make him/her happy and that is their deepest wish. But the more emotionally mature and evolved parent knows that letting their five year old drive the car will only mean disaster, so, even though the child is screaming and crying in despair, they withhold the keys. The parent knows that soon enough, when the child is old enough to drive a car safely and in a manner that he/she won’t kill themselves or cause serious damage to their life, they will get those keys, and such is our life. The universe so badly wants to give us what we want, and it knows that what we want is coming, but in an act of unconditional love for us, it can’t give it to us if we are not at a place where said thing is going to add to our life vs. being in our worst interest. Imagine the insecure character who is desperately trying manifest their soulmate. They think, “I will feel good about myself when I can get someone else to love me, but until then I’ll hate myself and wish things were different.” And the universe within us watches and waits. It waits for us to come into alignment with fulfillment on our own accord regardless of what is happening outside of us to send us the partner. The fact of the matter is, nothing is ever going to fulfill us… nothing outside of us that is. Any car, spouse, house, job we get will eventually become just another thing that we replace, lose, become bored with, or try to get rid of. To many that may sound like a depressing statement, but in all actuality, what this really means for our lives is that the source of all happiness and fulfillment lies within us. When fulfillment comes from within our own being, and isn’t dependent upon an outside outcome or set of circumstances, the material possessions we acquire, relationships we experience, and successes we enjoy can actually be enjoyed for as long as they last, and when the time comes for them to go, we let them. The awakening consciousness within us is not attached to any outcome for fulfillment. This is why those going through the awakening process often experience a loss of interest in what they thought they “wanted” out of life. This is the universes’ sign that we are beginning to lose attachments to people, places and things outside of us as the source of our happiness. This is a good thing. You’ll still get what you want, and experience the life you are destined to experience, but only at the point where you no longer think you “need” it. Look at your present moment and say thank you. This is the universe giving you exactly what you need and are prepared energetically to experience while also prepping and priming you for newer and better experiences to come. You are here in this place in time because this is exactly where you need to be, nothing ever goes wrong, and everything that is happening should be happening. May you be blessed with unconditional acceptance of every moment of your life and fulfillment of your soul’s deepest wishes and desire from now until infinity, and so it is 🙂

If It Has the Power to Anger You, There is a Part of You That Believes It Is True

Anything that is able to bring about a negative emotional reaction from you, whether it be anger, frustration, annoyance, criticism etc… is a sign that there is an issue w/ yourself (your ego) that needs to be addressed. Nothing that you don’t deep down somewhat believe will be able to bring about a negative reaction. The ego, in attempting to self-preserve, will try to blame the anger on the behavior of the other person. Next time something really brings up anger or rage or annoyance in you (and that includes people, groups of people, or maybe a past event), instead of blaming them, ask yourself “what part of my ego is offended by this? Where am I holding on to an attachment about my sense of self that this person threatens?” This is one of the toughest habits to get in when you start on the path of self awareness. But the positive aspect of always pointing the finger back on yourself is this: A. You work through emotions much quicker, bc you actually deal with them yourself instead of expecting someone else to change THEIR behavior in order for YOU to be happy. B. there is a level of consciousness that exists where you see everything as perfect just as it is. You stop judging things as “right” or “wrong” and easily accept things as they are. This stems from accepting yourself as you are, when you accept yourself & believe in your own power to control your life you stop being angry & afraid that other people are taking away your freedom. Remember, only the ego can get mad, or be offended or be pissed off. So these emotions ALWAYS stem from your illusory “sense of self”, use these emotions as a perfect guide to where you still need work on YOURSELF. You will empower yourself in amazing ways when you choose to “Blame” your OWN ego for the emotions you have, not other people/places/things. Have an amazing Sunday!!

Energy will Manifest… Whether Good or Bad

Your thoughts are your communication with the universe/god. Whatever your predominant thoughts are is what will manifest itself in your life. But.. The IMPORTANT thing to realize here, is that the universe ONLY deals in energy. So basically it makes no discernment whether you WANT something or DON’T want something, it only sees where all the energy is & then manifests that thing. Point being: focus on what you want, instead of on what you DON’T want. The more energy you give to your fears, you are actually ENERGIZING them into existence! And the most important tip is to realize: God/the universe ALWAYS KNOWS BEST. So if there is something you’ve been trying to manifest that you are not getting, there may be certain lessons that your soul needs to learn before it can get these things, or there may be something BETTER for you in store. The most important thing is to not constantly think “I want this, I want that”., “want” implies lack, which manifests as MORE WANT. You must behave and act as If you ALREADY HAVE the thing you want, thank god for it as If it has already happened, then the universe will have NO CHOICE but to match to your frequency & send you what you “want”. Become (internally) the person who already has the thing you are trying to manifest.. You are such a powerful being of creation, you MUST believe in magic for magic to happen to you  have an awesome day!!